It is important to know that, a PREMATURE EJACULATION, Which occurs first occasionally, could happen more frequently and, then, to occur at every sexual relation. Indeed, as soon as a premature ejaculation occur several time, the fear of failure and the stress will be, responsible of a repeated and lasting premature ejaculation. Thus, the anxiety, the fear of failure, the fear of not being good, a very strong incontrollable emotional tension, are the causes the more often at the origin of premature ejaculation.
The human sexual response can be divided into 3 phases: desire (libido), excitement (arousal), and orgasm.
Ejaculation physiology:
The ejaculation can be divided into two periods: The first period, or pre-ejaculatory period, corresponds to the tension of the sperm in the genital posterior tracts. This phase is perceptible by the man, controllable and reversible.
The second period is the expulsive phase, which corresponds to the expulsion of the sperm. This phase is uncontrollable and irreversible because it is a reflex. It is impossible to act on a reflex that released itself!
PE may be primary or secondary. Primary applies to individuals who have had the condition since they became capable of functioning sexually (ie, post puberty). Secondary indicates that the condition began in an individual who previously experienced an acceptable level of ejaculatory control, and, for unknown reasons, he began experiencing PE later in life. With secondary PE, the problem does not relate to a general medical disorder, and, usually, it is not related to substance inducement, although rarely, hyper excitability might relate to a psychotropic drug and resolves when the drug is withdrawn.
PE fits best into the category of not otherwise specified because no one really knows what causes it, although psychological factors are suggested in most cases.
Psychological Factors:
PE is believed to be a psychological problem and does not represent any known organic disease involving the male reproductive tract or any known lesions in the brain or nervous system.
The organ systems directly affected by PE include the male reproductive tract (ie, penis, prostate, seminal vesicles, testicles, and their appendages), the portions of the central and peripheral nervous system controlling the male reproductive tract, and the reproductive organ systems of the sexual partner (for the purpose of this discussion, the partner is assumed to be female) that may not be stimulated sufficiently to achieve orgasm.
Premature ejaculation may also be caused or aggravated by psychological factors such as guilt (believing the activity is sinful e.g., premarital or extramarital sex); fear (associated with concerns regarding potential pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, or getting caught or discovered); performance anxiety (especially in the inexperienced partner or with partners new to each other); and interpersonal issues affecting the couple.
While men sometimes underestimate the relationship between sexual performance and emotional well-being, premature ejaculation can be caused by temporary depression, stress over financial matters, unrealistic expectations about performance, a history of sexual repression, or an overall lack of confidence. Interpersonal dynamics strongly contribute to sexual function, and premature ejaculation can be caused by a lack of communication between partners, hurt feelings, or unresolved conflicts that interfere with the ability to achieve emotional intimacy.
Some physical illnesses, such as a prostate infection, are also known to induce premature ejaculation. In other instances, premature ejaculation is caused by a physical injury that affects the nervous system. Certain medications, such as cold medications containing pseudo ephedrine, also cause premature ejaculation. Sexual dysfunction is a common symptom of psychiatric afflictions ranging from bipolar disorder to post-traumatic stress disorder. In these cases, it is best to discuss the issues openly with a physician.
It is most common in adolescents, young adults, and other sexually naive males. Increased risk is associated with lack of sexual experience, lack of knowledge regarding normal male and female sexual responses, and with those individuals who highly associate psychological factors (such as fear, guilt, and anxiety) with sexual activity. Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. Often adolescents and young men experience premature ejaculation during their first sexual encounters, but eventually learn ejaculatory control.
You don’t have a premature ejaculation problem unless you FREQUENTLY ejaculate before or shortly after beginning intercourse. The following are NOT typically causes of premature ejaculation:
1. Men are too excited to focus on bodily sensation.
2. Some men’s first experience with intercourse was in a tense situation where hurrying was beneficial, like in a car, and then learned a bad habit.
3. Being so concerned about performance they didn’t pay attention to their own sensations.
4. Guilt about enjoying sex or pleasure of any kind.
5. Worrying about maintaining erections.
6. Unresolved relationship issues.
7. General life stress.
Biological factor
The cause of premature ejaculation is primarily biological. The normal physical response is for the man to experience climax, and therefore, ejaculate approximately 2 to 3 minutes after penetrating the vagina. The normal physical response for women is to build to a climax (orgasm, to come), about 12 to 14 minutes after coitus (intercourse, sex) occurs.
Psycho-behavioral origin: Bad habit of excess of masturbation, during adolescence, in order to evacuate rapidly a sexual tension, without making last the pleasure nor to appreciate the pleasure which come before the ejaculatory reflex. A very strong incontrollable emotional tension during sexual relations, stress, anxiety and tiredness can also be responsible of premature ejaculation. Finally, a relational conflict with the partner can also be responsible of a premature ejaculation.
It is important to know that, a PREMATURE EJACULATION, Which occurs first occasionally, could happen more frequently and, then, to occur at every sexual relation. Indeed, as soon as a premature ejaculation occur several time, the fear of failure and the stress will be, responsible of a repeated and lasting premature ejaculation. Thus, the anxiety, the fear of failure, the fear of not being good, a very strong incontrollable emotional tension, are the causes the more often at the origin of premature ejaculation.
The organic causes of PREMATURE EJACULATION are few: during an urinary infection an occasional premature ejaculation is frequent. Men who have a phimosis (impossibility to pull back the foreskin of the glans) suffer also, and often of PREMATURE EJACULATION.
Neurological premature ejaculation can also lead to other forms of sexual dysfunction, or intensify the existing problem, by creating performance anxiety.
In the early 1990′s, research indicated that the pelvic muscles, specifically the muscles that surround the erectile bodies in the penis, are in a hyperactive state in men with premature ejaculation. Further, it is known that during the ejaculation process there is increased activity of these same muscle groups. Consequently, it is likely that men who have premature ejaculation have hyperactive muscles that are already on their way toward the threshold to producing ejaculations. A few penis exercise programs address this issue and attempt to correct it.
As to treating premature ejaculation, here are a list of things that DON’T work:
1.Getting drunk
2.Using one or more condoms
3.Concentrating on something other than sex while having sex
4.Biting one’s cheek as a distraction
5.Frequent masturbation
6.Creams that numb the penis
7.Testosterone injections
8.Tranquilizers
The Cause of Severe Premature Ejaculation.
Extreme levels of arousal caused by the overproduction of sex hormones. Simply stated – Hormones control “everything” that happens during a sexual performance – from the erection to the ejaculation.
A normal ejaculation occurs when sexual excitement triggers glands, located inside your body, to begin a slow release of chemicals (hormones) into your blood stream. The slow release of these hormones tells your brain to gently stimulate the nerves at the glans (head of your penis). As you become more and more sexually excited, your body produces more and more of these hormones. The sensitivity becomes greater and greater until you reach the point at which time you ejaculate. Under normal circumstances the production of hormone is gradual and a man has the ability to control the sensations of sex.
When nerve endings in the penis are stimulated signals are sent to the brain which trigger ejaculation. Topicals help to prevent premature ejaculation by alternating neurological sensation to the penis. These altered sensations are new to the brain and will not register as a signal to ejaculate prematurely. Thus allowing the male total control over Premature Ejaculation.
Premature Ejaculation occurs when your body produces too much hormone too fast. Your body becomes “over stimulated”. The head of the penis becomes so sensitive that you ejaculate almost immediately. There is absolutely no control.
This Extreme Sensitivity on the head of your penis causes the ejaculatory mechanism, inside your body, to go into “spasms”. It’s these spasms that cause the overpowering Urge to Ejaculate. The head of your penis becomes so sensitive and the urge is so strong that you ejaculate immediately. If you slow down the production of excess hormone – you slow down the ejaculation.
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However, many women may not experience orgasm at all, particularly if intercourse involves only penetration of the vagina by the penis. Other methods of sexual stimulation may be necessary for the woman to attain orgasm. It is estimated that about 10% of women do not experience orgasm under any circumstances or with any type of stimulation.
